Friday, April 9, 2010

Just because you don't say it out loud doesn't mean we don't know what you're thinking.
Just because you aren't ready to deal with it doesn't mean it"s not there. Or that it's going away.


When you ignore things, that doesn't mean that they will go away. They won't just magically disappear. They actually keep reappearing at the worst possible moments. Everything comes flooding back to you, and you start drowning inside your own thoughts. You start to become disconnected from everything and everyone, because that problem you ignored didn't go away.

When you don't say things out loud, that doesn't mean you're telling the truth. Because sometimes people know what you're thinking, or what's going on. They just want you to trust them enough to tell them.

Once you say something, you can honestly never take it back. People might revert, people might back down, people might be hurt but not say anything.

When you question something, and don't get an answer, you will continue to question it. Because it's there, because you don't know why it's there. Because maybe it's proving what you were taught to run from, or maybe it's disproving it.

In the end. Everyone will end up smiling. Pretending they said those things out loud. Pretending you aren't questioning. Pretending you didn't say something. Pretending you didn't ignore it.

But in the end, Everyone's pretending.
So what reality do we gain from it?

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